❧ BakaaaJ

Contnued.

Date: Saturday, August 8, 2009

10:46 AM

Everyone wants to be happy.
However, happiness is something that is beyond people's reach.
You control your own fate. Whether you live your life happily or not, it's up to you to decide.
Sometimes, when you look at a problem from a different perspective, you'll feel that some things are not as bad as what you think it is.
The problem actually lies on us.

Childishness is a common obstacle to people who want to achieve happiness.
When we are not mature, we tend to look at a problem in a way that ourself is always right.
We want to go against other people, talk abruptly to people.
We don't forgive and forget.
Whatever people do to us, we'll want to get back at them.
Hence, we will never be happy.
In order to be happy, everyone has to compromise each other, realise each other's mistakes.
And from there, we can change those temper, bad habits and make people around us happy.

Life is full of ups and downs.

In the past, I may have done things that hurt people around me.
We all need love to survive, no matter its friends or ur love ones.
I'm truly sorry for hurting certain people.
Only today, I come to realize what i was really doing.
Sometimes, we do things without even realizing them.
Life is about giving and taking.
To be happy, we have to give more and expect less.
We have to think of our own actions and the way we speak to our friends and love ones.

When will we people realise, how much we have been giving in and losing in for each other to make each other happy?
When will we understand no one wants to get hurt but just trying to be there for each other?
When will we realise, these problems are just trying to block our path and break us apart?

Rather than being unhappy and get back at each other, why not look at it at a different perspective?
And show it to the obstacles we can overcome them?
That we can beat them, fight them, remove them on our path which they blocked.

Cherish today, for you do not know what tomorrow may bring.

Everything around me is changing.
Be it people, friends, love, family.
It's changing so quickly i couldn't keep up with the pace.
Everyone is asking "why?".
Everyone is moving on, is feeling a thing.
But me, i'm just right here, unwilling to move, unwilling to feel anytihng, unwilling to play my part.
I loved life for the past year.
It has been the best year in my life.
It was said that Singapore couldn't survive through 2009 due to the economic crisis that rised.
But for some people, they can't survive through 2009 because things are changing so quickly that they get lost in the shadows of other people.

And i'm one of those who are getting lost.

There has always been this problem with human species.
We are all greedy and selfish people. We all just want to be happy.
And in order to achieve what we want, we find all sorts of ways to get it in the shortest time.
Sometimes, we end up not getting it and instead, bringing misfortune and hurting people around us.
When things happen, we push blames, point fingers.
And now the big question is "WHY?"
Why are we doing all these and hurting people around us.
people that love us, people that care for us, people that really mattered to us.
Yet we do not care about how they feel.
It is true that some prople do not know how to treasure things until they are gone.

Life works in a funny manner.
Things change quickly.
In a split second, everything is not the same anymore.
What do we really want in life?

Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

I love my family, friends and boyfriend.
From the bottom of my heart.

So much 've said, i mean it.

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